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Monday, January 11, 2010

Love is in da air.. or is tat infactuation??

Many people can't make out the difference between a crush, infactuation and Love. Here r my interpretations

-Crush is the initial stage of liking someone as in admiring them and wanting to be like them or with them.PS: u may not need to know the person at all, infact one meet is enough.

-Infactuation is when u get to know a person and things r in dating stage and ur pretty excited about this person. U want to know more and more about this person, a sort of obsession/intriguing feeling.

Lust: When all u have in mind is physical, with little emotional thoughts in background.. but well, intentions r pretty clear as to wat is wanted!

-Love-> for simplifcation i split it into two types.
1)Its a love that makes u see the person as cute, adorable, and lovable and huggable. U feel nice n warm around that person and feel like hugging them n just adoring the feeling with them. Very caring and affectionate protective feeling.

2)Its a love that goes further than the first love, where one person finds the other irresistible, always wanting to be with the person, kissing and hugging and much more. A very satisfying passionate and possesive feeling.

NOTE: difference between 'protective' and 'possessive'

As nothing makes things clear as examples, i give u a few for the above.

Crush - The new guy u spotted around the corner, and u run into him couple of times. A pic/person u came across on Orkut and u frequent their profile often.

Infactuation- Feeling after dating a crush/someone couple of times. Or U been scrappin for few days/weeks with this person in orkut. U wanna move to gtalk/yahoo or even wanna call the person.

Lust: Generaly most guys hav prob with confusing this with luv, n girls confusing the lust of men for love! Girls,try practicin celibacy n tat will test his love (if its jus lust or not). General eg is one-night standers or party-goers have "fun".

Love - first type
Close friends, friends u just dont wanna part with..can be of diff genders and feel as close as bro/sis, gf/bf, and godfather/girl etc etc.. but jus still friends.

Love-Second type
Couples, flirting dating ppl, husband-wife, bf-gf


I know these are Some basic terms and examples that we often see, but what i realize is most fail to recognize properly. Most guys/girls confuse infactuation with love or love with lust n we know the outcome then very well !!
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Dedication: Its time for a 'slow dance number' thats soulful n meaningful for me at this point.

...Tadpaaye Mujhe Teri Sabhi Baatein
Ek baar aye Deewane
Jhoota hi Sahi, Pyaar to Kar...
...Mein Bhooli Nahi Haseen Mulaaqaatein
Bechain karke Mujhko
Mujhse yu naa Pher Nazar...
...Roothega na Mujhse, mere Saathiya ye Waada Kar
Tere Bina..
Mushkil Hai..
Jeena mere mere Dil Mein...
..Zara Zara..Behekta Hai..

Quote of the Day:-
It is really easy to Die for Someone.. but very hard to LIVE for someone..

That's all Folks!

Signing off,
Lovologist Div$ter

1 comment:

satishds said...

only a person who has expereinced all these can write soo beautifully :)