Love is in da air.. or is tat infactuation??

Many people can't make out the difference between a crush, infactuation and Love. Here r my interpretations

-Crush is the initial stage of liking someone as in admiring them and wanting to be like them or with them.PS: u may not need to know the person at all, infact one meet is enough.

-Infactuation is when u get to know a person and things r in dating stage and ur pretty excited about this person. U want to know more and more about this person, a sort of obsession/intriguing feeling.

Lust: When all u have in mind is physical, with little emotional thoughts in background.. but well, intentions r pretty clear as to wat is wanted!

-Love-> for simplifcation i split it into two types.
1)Its a love that makes u see the person as cute, adorable, and lovable and huggable. U feel nice n warm around that person and feel like hugging them n just adoring the feeling with them. Very caring and affectionate protective feeling.

2)Its a love that goes further than the first love, where one person finds the other irresistible, always wanting to be with the person, kissing and hugging and much more. A very satisfying passionate and possesive feeling.

NOTE: difference between 'protective' and 'possessive'

As nothing makes things clear as examples, i give u a few for the above.

Crush - The new guy u spotted around the corner, and u run into him couple of times. A pic/person u came across on Orkut and u frequent their profile often.

Infactuation- Feeling after dating a crush/someone couple of times. Or U been scrappin for few days/weeks with this person in orkut. U wanna move to gtalk/yahoo or even wanna call the person.

Lust: Generaly most guys hav prob with confusing this with luv, n girls confusing the lust of men for love! Girls,try practicin celibacy n tat will test his love (if its jus lust or not). General eg is one-night standers or party-goers have "fun".

Love - first type
Close friends, friends u just dont wanna part with..can be of diff genders and feel as close as bro/sis, gf/bf, and godfather/girl etc etc.. but jus still friends.

Love-Second type
Couples, flirting dating ppl, husband-wife, bf-gf


I know these are Some basic terms and examples that we often see, but what i realize is most fail to recognize properly. Most guys/girls confuse infactuation with love or love with lust n we know the outcome then very well !!
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Dedication: Its time for a 'slow dance number' thats soulful n meaningful for me at this point.

...Tadpaaye Mujhe Teri Sabhi Baatein
Ek baar aye Deewane
Jhoota hi Sahi, Pyaar to Kar...
...Mein Bhooli Nahi Haseen Mulaaqaatein
Bechain karke Mujhko
Mujhse yu naa Pher Nazar...
...Roothega na Mujhse, mere Saathiya ye Waada Kar
Tere Bina..
Mushkil Hai..
Jeena mere mere Dil Mein...
..Zara Zara..Behekta Hai..

Quote of the Day:-
It is really easy to Die for Someone.. but very hard to LIVE for someone..

That's all Folks!

Signing off,
Lovologist Div$ter

Letter to Amitabh Bachchan

Well.. I am not sure how I should be addressing you under this circumstance, but let me make a humble start by saying Hi Mr. Bachchan

I am not quite sure if you get a chance to read all the comments that are posted here, but i sure hope this one is read at some point. :) The thought of Earth Hour had me wondering.. what is the current situation with Nature and Humans. It is almost as if they are on opposite ends, each trying to tip the scale by showing how much more powerful they can be over the other. As I surfed through the History channel ( which shows mostly documentaries on our planet and life in it), I was pretty mesmerized to see soo many shows that were titled "mega disasters" Global Warming and more and more speculations about 2012 DoomsDay prophecy. To top it all, movies like Day after Tomorrow, the Day the Earth Stood Still, have just brought to the masses..what the scientists have been proclaiming all along - the sequence of events leading to Nature's Abnormalities.

I don't know if you have seen the movie "Crack in the World" taken way back in 1965.. it is a classic about what Human beings are doing to this Earth. It only made me surprised that even after 44 years we are still making movies on how much harm we are doing to our planet. While Earth Hour maybe a small measure to create awareness, what is more important is a global change of mindset. I mean..what good is it.. if a person follows Earth Hour this week or every week.. but doesn't indulge in a consistent reduction of wastage of electricity?

Pls be aware that I am not questioning the authority of the motion Earth Hour..but simply trying to stress the importance of the aftermath reactions of people! That is what is most important..don't you think? With this in mind, I think every person should take it upon themselves to commit to doing One activity atleast that is in sync with "go green" initiative. Even then.. it is such a slow process..while on the other hand the rate of repletion of global resources has not reduced but is only increasing at an alarming rate.

To conclude, as a 23 yr old who is a Major in International Economics with a dream of pursuing a career in United Nations at some point in my life..I only want to make people aware of this psychological notion.. It is very easy to react (when you get inspired by Earth Hour you act on it)..but without any exterior motive, a motivation coming from within making you act on it day by day...well..that is what this Earth wants. Doing good to Earth, is not a favor.. it is a Duty! The day we understand that.. will be the day Humans and Nature can find some measure of Harmony.

Philosophicaly, I just realized..how easy it is to destroy..but how difficult it is to create. 2 mins to cut down a tree..but 20 years for it to grow strong.

Our Mindset is everything.. May peace be restored to this Dark Age..and may we bring brightness to this Darkness(Ignorance of our duty) through the lamp of our Mind-set!

Signing off,
Divster

Its been more than a year since my last post... I have let down a lot of blogging friends and readers who have from time to time often commented casually that I should continue blogging and writing...My retort was that life is too busy for me now and I do not have the time to sit back and gather my thoughts to write them down as a blog post.

But now my fingers are twitching with excitement... because only while writing this do i sense what all i have missed. Writing purely is a passion..and for some people it becomes a necessity a way to give an outlet to all the thoughts in the other realm. While for some people like me it is a way to show my creativity, my passion for exposing what is not known.. sometimes even to myself.

So here I am back to regain my blogging experience, which I believe I will find it intensely satisfying.
So...Goodnight Sleeping...Good Morning Blogging!
-D

Think of a Caption ?

Can u think of a Caption? If I got some real good entries, I will publish them as winner! :)

My cutest creation.. as of now

Happy Bday Fellow Scorpion

This one goes out to a Cute young Stud

Who makes young girls' hearts go Thud Thud

He has a killer hairstyle

U can notice his charm away from 1000 mile

Yappa this loos poem is too much :P

But I want to tell u.. ur one special guy..and tats bilkul Sach :P

Here's Hugs n kisses a ton, my fellow scorpion

for ur da bday boy N Watch out, cuz this year's marked full of FUN

HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYYYYYYYY

Story time-come come

I have grown up loving Grandma's stories. Today, I want you all to come sit with me while I narrate to you one of my favorites.

There was a king once.. with four wives.. he likes his second wife better than his first wife... and he liked the third one better than the second...n the fourth wife the youngest..he liked her the best. So, he used to neglect his first wife a lot.

So.. one day this king was struck by a very serious illness.. and he was told that he doesnt hav much time... and the King feels very restless..and sad...that he has to leave everyone..

So.. he called the wife he liked the most.. that is the fourth wife.. and said..
"listen, i am afraid of death.. and i dont want to go alone.. will u come with me...?"
The fourth wife..being the youngest.. straight away said..
"No, of course not!" and immediately went away.

The King then called the third wife... whom he liked the second best...after the fourth wife... and said.. l
"listen... i am afraid of death.. i would like you to come with me.. will you?"
The third wife.. didnt right away say no like the fourth wife.. Instead, she said..
"I cant come because after you die i will marry someone else."

So he was little upset and finally he called the second wife..and said
" See, the last two wives didnt want to come with me.. atleast you come with me.."
The second wife was nicer than the rest two. So, she said..
"ok, i will come with you.. but only till the graveyard"

By now, the King was feelin very sad, when his first wife.. who was very thin and not so beautiful anymore came to him.. and... she said..
" Dear King, U are my husband.. and i will always be with you no matter what.. im ready to come with you all the way..."

Now..what is the meaning of this story...?

The meaning is like this... every man comes across the four forms that are shown as the wives in this story.

This fourth wife.. whom the king loved the most.. is symbolizing our physical body.. we are attracted to our body the most.. we always want to perfect it... we do things to satisfy it.. but we shud know.. no matter what.. this body will not come with us after our life is gone. its straight no..

The third wife.. who said after the king will die will marry other.. is symbolizing.. our status, our money... after we die.. this status and our money that we have attained.. will go to someone else.. maybe our children.. or to some other person...who replaces us in the successful world.

The second wife.. who was willing to come ..till the graveyard.. symbolizes... our relatives and friends.. they are all there for us all the time. and are willing to come till the graveyard for support.. but not beyond that.

The first wife.. whom the King neglected the most.. is nothing but the soul inside us.. our aatma, our personality, our individuality. our conscience..
We dont really care so much about it.. nor do we give any attention to it. but, it is the only thing that will stay with us forever..that is always our own.. our soul stays with us forever.. learn to love yourself.. and you can embrace any trouble in this earth with no fear.. even death.

What does it say?

Every artist dips

his brush in his

own soul, and

paints his own

nature into

his pictures.

Henry Ward Beecher





Drew this while trying to doodle in the paper with my ballpoint pen.

Children of the Sky

World, hear me. This is a cry of hope and dream from one of your children. A child who has been gifted with the best luxuries that she could visualize. One who was born in the better side of lifestyle, spoonfed all responsibilities. Today, I am going to stop saying NO to myself. This week my exams start. Although, they are not going to change anything big in my life at this moment. Yet, I have taken it a point to take them as a challenge for myself. Now, no more of "no, cant do", "no, dont know", "no, wont".

Negativity is completly eradicated from my life until I score brownie points achieving my goal. Ambition right now is to return to India. Let's hope that I pull this through. US was a horrible suprise that I certainly wasn't happy about. I lived till yesterday with this feeling. Now, I am ready to shed that load. Whatever has happenned, regretting is only putting me in this cyclonic mood-swing. NO more thinking more than tht's required.

Now its.. JUST DO IT.. Nike Way. Children of Sky don't stay on earth for long. They go to the place where they do belong..Sky! Lets make this ride as exciting as it can get! I bow down to myself and my thirst for thrill. Now, I start a life..for good or for bad...certainly more motivated than ever before! :)

LoL- Dun wanna be in either position!

Coca Cola Enjoy..

Aah Yes.. the old age myth has come true. Seriously, Is Diet Cola less harmful than Coca Cola??
I dont know.. and frankly I dont care. I am not a Coke addict. (Neither the drink nor the drug). But yeah.. I am a "Diet" Addict. Everyday I am approached by choices.. as small as.. eating the healthier yoghurt.. choosing 0.5% instead of 0.8 or 1%. I don't really know how much it matters in the long run.. but it really is a tiring to look for alternatives to each delicious thing that comes your way. :P

By the way, I came across this new Tamil Advertisement in SunTV about Cocacola by Radhika. She wears a typical saree and gives a speech on how much she cares about the healthy production of Cocacola as she also believed all those rumors about how bad it is. So, they show her wearing this showercap in some Cocacola type factory.. looking over the way the bottles are capped and produced and she explains that its a really healthy process and recommends that anyone who has a doubt should visit the factory. She then opens a cocacola bottle drinks it saying.. I can tell with guarantee that Cocacola is a very Healthy Drink and she takes a gulp of Cola.

What is this world coming to?

"what is this world coming to?"

Ok, maybe my thought process starting from one direction to another and ended in such a philosophical question. But, it all started with my last post. Yes, the one about my Teddy Bear. It went on to my Financial Markets Class yesterday. My proffessor addressed the class politely and gave us details about the course structure. Then, she went on to add that she hopes to finish most of the lectures before the mid-term exam. After that, she wants to sit back and relax while the students come up in front and do presentations. The reason which she explained after looking cautiously at her stomach. She is pregnant and is due to have a baby by January. She "hopes" to be here till the end of the semester.. but if that isnt the case, then a substitute teacher would be arranged. Me and my friends were amused. She looked so damn slim! Where is this baby?? Yes, just like boys stare at women.. we girls were staring at her weird! :P

I was playing with my pen wondering what this woman was doing in a university, when she should clearly be at home enjoying this. But, then she threw me off balance with another statement that her two year old son is at home and therefore she wont be available for consultation at all hours. I stared at her... well.. middle..again. Gosh, i haven't seen a woman go through all this.. this.. well baby process. Atleast, i havent seen the 'bloating' session before yet. Lol, pardon my ignorance. Yes, well.. I did see the bloated final version of my classmate who, from what information i could gather, had delivered her child one week before the final exam week. She still turned up for the final exams. Well, I must say Kudos for her.. because she carried herself well throughout the whole session without a flinch. Then again, this wasnt her first time. This is her second child and yes, she has been married for six years now.

While i was listening to Himesh's jhalak dikhlaaja in my w300i, a realization hit me in this cold afternoon of september 7th. The world is changing so quickly! The whole process of learning and observing has just become twice faster. Children.. are actually Brilliant nowadays! They achieve things that we cant even fathom to!

I mean.. what is the most well-known toy for a little boy? Guns! He loves guns and learns to use it when he can't even spell the word Gun yet!
Favorite game for a boy? Police-thief game or super-hero games. Why not declare peace? No wayzz.. tichikiyaonnnnn.. I am here to shoot everyone with my plastic gun! And we are sitting here gasping at the arrests of terrorists. Look at what your kids are exposed to!

Girls aren't better off either. Most well-known Toy for a little girl? Barbie! The perfect image of a new modern era girl who dresses slutty and looks bimboish. The first thing your little girl learns is how to undress and dress a Barbie. And we are dumbstruck by the emerging Bipasha's and Mallika's. What else do u expect??

Favorite game for a girl? Family-family game. A huge fight between the lil girls on who gets to be the 'mommy' for the dolly. "... I will stay at home and take care of the baby and cook, and you go to office ok?..." And these same girls grow up to become 'feminists'???

What is this world coming to...

My beloved Teddy :)

Ye mera India, I love my India

Yes, even one week after Independence Day, the patriotic spirit is high.. and is coming out in my special salad.. (which I made for 30 ppl ) Of course, some ingredients are not yet mixed... But, Hindustan ki kasam... Vegetables se pehli baar Vande Mataram!

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